My friend and I like to borrow each other's clothes. Problem is, she always returns my stuff all balled up or stained.

I hate to cut out the swapping, but I'm sick of my BFF not taking care of my stuff! Why can't she be more responsible?

I had the same problem, so I fibbed and told her my morn didn't want me sharing clothes. But I got busted in my lie. Later, I spilled the truth to my friend. She took it well. If your friend is really a friend, she will too. So just be honest.

--Abby, 11

Kindly tell your friend that, if she expects to keep trading, she must keep your clothes clean and neat. Give her one last chance. If your clothes are stained, dirty or wrinkled, don't trade anymore. You deserve to have clean clothes!

--Valerie, 13

Reconsider having her as a swap buddy, even if she has awesome stuff. Do you still want great clothes? Try selling your old ones at a consignment shop and using the money for new, cool styles.

--Sonia, 11

Don't give up on her yet. Let her know you're disappointed with how she treats your clothes. Tell her she must respect your stuff. If she doesn't get the message, kindly tell her you don't want to trade anymore.

--Jasmine, 12

If you can wash the stains, is it that big of a deal? On the other hand, if they're ruined, suggest a deposit system--insist she lay out cash when you swap. If she returns your clothes completely trashed, keep your friend's money.

--Maria, 11