Preschoolers love to pretend, and this is just one of the many ways in which your child is experimenting with imaginary roles — whether it's as policeman or princess, construction worker or Cinderella. (It's interesting that parents are often concerned about boys who enjoy girls' toys or clothes but don't seem to mind when girls play with trucks or dress up like cowboys.)

The fact that your son enjoys playing with girls' things is an indication that you've been open and supportive and that you've provided him with opportunities that go beyond typical "boys'" play — and not an indication of his future sexual preference.
The truth is, he may grow up to be gay or he may not, but having tea parties in preschool isn't going to "make" him anything other than a playful and imaginative child.

To further encourage your preschooler's normal and healthy imagination and social skills, make sure he has a chance to play with a variety of toys, and in a variety of ways. Though many kids this age like to play with same-sex friends, set up playdates that include boys and girls so that your child has a chance to try activities that aren't gender-specific — in other words, let boys nurture dolls and let girls get messy and loud.

Also be alert for gender stereotyping in the stories you read together and even in the offhand comments you make. Rather than "shushing" your child when he tears up, for instance, let him know that crying is okay. Be sure to praise his gentleness with pets or younger siblings and his empathy toward friends, too. Remember, play skills become life skills — and if you let him, your son will grow up to be a man who's both strong and sensitive.

Of course, even if you're open-minded about your son's experimentation, friends, family members, and even complete strangers may not be. Respectfully acknowledge their comments (or defuse them with humor), but also remind yourself to trust and value your own judgment. After all, if your child is happy and playful — even if he's playing with baby dolls — then you're doing a good job.